earlier this year. We’re all friends through the music department, some of us
majors, minors, or some merely enthusiasts. We fully comprehend music, respect
the arts, and have fun enjoying a wide array of productions and concerts. But,
sometimes, unintended offenses can be made. This is our story.
early), and made it to our seats. We scoured the program notes, and filled in
any gaps any one had before the performance began. Lights down, curtains up,
and all of us were immediately engrossed. Between Act I and II, some of the
group I was with needed a break and refreshment and proceeded to the lobby for
air and snacks.
a snack, which made me slightly nervous. I looked at my friend, giving the
look, which he received well. Lights down, curtain up. He didn’t finish in time
for the show. Gasp attack as I saw from the corner of my eye his hand reaching
into the bag of candy he had. However, he operated deftly throughout the entire
act. I sat next to him and didn’t even flinch as he nommed
on his candies. Achievement: successful opera snacking. Could have fooled me!
Fast forward to intermission between Acts II and III. Confrontation ensues:
A woman walks up to our row. My friends and I got giddy, thinking she was so
pleased seeing college students at an opera. Wrong.
“Omigosh. What are you doing,” she whined. “You’re eating candy, and making all
that noise? Come on! This is opera, not the movies.”
The people would like to point out that there are two points to this story: 1)
opera etiquette and 2) stuffiness.
the realm of the theater. Though it may be seemingly innocuous, sometimes even
the slightest of sounds can wreck a LIVE opera experience for someone else in
the audience. Out of courtesy for others, snacks should really be consumed
before coming back into the theater. It might not bother everyone, but there
might be that one person (like my friend found out) that was extremely annoyed
by it. Think about it this way if it helps: it’s kind of like when you are at
your favorite band or singer’s concert, and that one really tall person is in
your way. You have to struggle to see, so you’re not paying attention to what’s
going on at all. You ask them to trade places with you, and they refuse to.
Disturbing someone with that extraneous noise is quite similar to this
situation. Just don’t do it, and pay it forward, friends.
Now, stuffiness. Opera and the movies are not all that different. I mean, the
plots of operas have been the foundation or inspiration for many movies, books,
and musicals. It really bothered me that this woman chose to make that
comparison. While it is true that we are listening to art music and should be
attentive to the details of the artistic presentation of the story and music,
we should not lose the fact that we are in the theater to be entertained as
well. To lose sight of that is another critical error in being an audience
member. Are you having fun? If not, loosen up a little bit! Are you being
moved? No? Then get your head out of the details for a moment to see the
humanity in what’s going on at that moment on stage.
can stop etiquette faux pas and fight stuffiness.
Jessica (Boston College)